Failure Is Not The End But The Start

Have you ever failed in your life? Everyone wants to reach whatever he dreams but sometimes he/she gets nothing or fail. And usually he/she will lose hope and get stressed. That is a common thing that everyone does (but it is the worst thing). If you fail, do not let yourself drowned in desperation. Desperation only makes a space between you and your success.
Make something positive to be your disappointment of failure and do not regret it. Regret the failure is only done by the foulest ones. No good outcomes for being in sorrow for a long time. That is useless.
Remember! "life is struggle"
To reduce our disappointment of failure, we should do something useful in this life. So, these alternatives below:

1. Make yourself busy (in this case, do something positive): Busy can make us forget our disappointment although that does not even happen like we want to. To make us concentrate on our activities. Do what you like, as do your hobby. I am truly sure that your activities will bring you in better condition. By doing your hobby, you will feel happy and may be you get something new, it will make you have some one fun. And let yourself enjoy your life.
2. Make your mind clear: Quite atmosphere may help you to think clearly to face your following reality and you can think of the following steps. Do not let yourself decide something fast when you are in bad mood. This will bring you in the second failure because of doing something without consideration. Walking at the shore and enjoy its scene can make you relax and think clearly. 
3. join your friends: having many friends is a wonderful thing for us because they can cheer us up when we are sad, lift us up when we are down and give solution when we need way-out to solve our problem. You know why? Because good friends will really know us and they are our everything. Join our friends is one of ways to forget our trouble, like making a joke, doing our hobbies together, sharing our problem each other. By sharing troubles, it makes us think that we are not the one who gets failure because there still many people who get failure like us or maybe they get worse than what we get. 
4. Failure bring us to wise measurement: have you ever thought that after getting failure, people will be more careful in taking steps? Yes, they are. That is absolutely right because it is almost impossible that everyone will take the same ways when he/she knows that it will fail. So, we can't deny that "failure brings us to wise measure" it's exact statement for a failure. Deep patience and resignation (trust in God who orders everything).  

Bravo..!