Hints To Live In Happiness

Do you want to live in happiness? Of course you do, everybody does, but how? Well, the English well known author; Sir Antony Usman, would like to tell you something, sometimes happiness is like one thing that is hard to catch, though it's actually very close to you. Believe me! Happiness is like a shadow, yeah…. shadow, your own shadow. It moves every time make a move. When you stand still, it stands still. When you run after it, it runs even faster. It is very close to you, you just don't know to grab it.   Well, here are some hints, which may help you to be attached by your own shadow (happiness).

1. Always be aware that life is too short: To regret a bitter experience in the past or worry about the future, it is really no need to think about the past all the time. You can not fix what have happened in the past. Past is a time when you can not go back. You also have no idea what will happen in the future. Just believe in yourself that past is past, present is present and tomorrow is tomorrow. So, why bother? Do what you can do today! Every morning, wake up and thanks to lord for a new day. Face your routine with happy feeling. And when it is time for you to get to bed, leave all your burden in your head. Enjoy your rest and you will always be ready for the next day. 
2. Love your sel: No one is perfect. So, recognize and accept your weakness with no anger and no hatred. Forgive your self every time you are aware of making a mistake. And give yourself a present for the success you achieve, no matter how small your success is. Do the best you can, to serve yourself! 
3. Do what you can do today: Get rid of bad habit, delaying that is. When you are in a conflict with your friend, try to make it up as soon as possible. Forget what have happened and plan for the better relationship. When you get tired, get some rest. Unsettled problem will seem bigger and bigger if you delay solving it.
4. Get a friend: Although not all people can be our friend, but at least, make a friend. You can get a friend if you start yourself by being a friend. I know it is hard to get real friend these days. But you will never know if you are not starting it. You will be very lucky if you get a true friend, whose shoulder is available to carry on, who can be a good listener when you need to be heard.
5. Make others pleased: A wise man ever says that happiness come when you gain it not for yourself but when you distribute them. Be helpful to needy. Be a good listener to those who want to be heared., English Author; Sir Antony Usman