Overcoming Failure

OVERCOMING FAILURES

The teenagers, like us, often get frustrated because of our sensitivity to new things and quite often act without considering any further to the future. The lack of knowledge and experience makes us easy to fail. Ironically, we sometimes do not know how to face our failure and then frustrated.
There are many things that make us feel sorry, painful and defeated such as get failed in one subject or more, get failed in a examination, get punished by parents or teachers, being dumped by our boy/girl friend and there are still many other cases. These kinds of failure force us to take a short cut in the way of expressing our disappointment. We usually run away toward smoking, alcohols, drugs and even committing suicide.
Actually, there are a lot of things – much better things – that we can do to get our self-confidence back after failing. One thing for sure, that we are not alone. Many people may fail after or even before doing their maximum efforts. We should thing clearly and realize that failure is a common thing that can happen to anyone.
After realizing that we have partners in failing, we should get help. We do not need to be ashamed or arrogant to share our weakness with our friends. Who knows, our friends could give us support and even direction to live this life and to put it back to its track again.
Furthermore, we have to perform our abilities again. We have to show others that we are not enslaved by our own failures.
However, the important thing that we have to do is to return and pray to god for his blessing because God only shows the right path and in human’s hand lies the effort to get through that path.

Today's struggle is tomorrow's success; Bravo