Try To Be Self Confidence

Imagine, you are in an important conversation with your friend. Suddenly you feel shy, nervous, and like a stranger. Why? Because you have no knowledge about the topic. But maybe a little bit only. In this case, we may say that you have lost self-confidence.
Generally, everybody has ever does that, moreover if she or he is among people whose ability is more than her or his. It's dangerous if we always have no self-confidence. A simple reason, we will believe that people around us always underestimate our ability, finally we tend to avoid our friends, the society, and than we become a foolish stranger in our environment. In addition, having no self-confidence means we lose our bravery to do something new, because we just think that we can't do it, so we fail.
Thus, our success basically depends on our self-confidence. Therefore, it's important for us to arouse it. The English Author; Sir Antony U, would like to confirm some statements concerning to the best solutions to get self-confidence:

1. Self-introspection: Everybody is created to have two side; good or bad, or positive and negative. To know both of them, we must examine our selves. Which one is the positive and which one is the negative. Next, we must try to minimize the negatives and always optimize the positives as long as we can develop them. We should prove that we have an excellent ability. 
2. Never force our selves to everything we are dreaming: Forget the motto "I try so I can." Realize that we are different, and everybody has their own ability, so if we fail don't blame it on our selves. 
3. Never feel that everything we do is useless: It means that we never respect our own ability. 
4. Believe our hearth that we can get together with other people without being ashamed; believe that they will appreciate our ability. 
5. We must confess that other people have their own ability, could be more or even less than us. So that's why don't be arrogant if we reach our hey day. 
6. Keep a diary about our success and failure. From this report we could arrange an analysis why we fail and how to determine a success.

Finally, of course our performance will influence too, but how beautiful or ugly we are, it's doesn't matter as we believe ourselves or have self-confidence. Optimizing knowledge about something new is important so to make a good relationship; we don't want to be left behind, do we? So, do the best you can and good luck!